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Just some thoughts…

Hi Everyone,

This past week I was at a cozy birthday party. And although the group was small, it split organically into women and men.

In my group the first main subject was retirement homes, a common topic in my generation because most of us are confronted with parents unable to look out for themselves anymore. For me it is history. I was thirty when I had a parent in a nursing home. Not anything I still have the urge to talk about, or worse, being reminded of  …

While taking an envious glance at the male group – whose laughter was overtaking the background music –  my thoughts were uncontrollably turning into a dark corner of my future. How would I survive in a nursing home? Would my memories be enough to get through a day? Though it would be as if you do not live in real time anymore but only in the past. Would I be able to retain only the happy memories? How do memories get filtered? It must have something to do with what has the most impact. You do not remember trivial things. If positive memories stick better than the negative ones, it certainly means that life has been good to you. But I believe it also relates to one’s character. Optimistic people will tend more to the positive side of life and to happy memories also. What is your opinion? I tend to think of myself as an optimistic creature 😉 Luckily.

My most hopeful vision of myself in my eighties or nineties – if I get that far 😉 – is sitting in a rocking chair in the evening sun, reading a good book – if my sight lets me – or chuckling over sweet and funny memories. Preferably in an “out of Africa” scenery, maybe Tanzania?

What is your hope?

The subject changed over the evening. Into grandchildren. Help! Although it is a more positive topic, I don’t want to think about that yet either!

Make good memories this weekend!

Sophia

 

 

 

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Korda : beauty and revolution

Hi Everyone,

Do you recognize this photo? If not, you are not a creature walking on this globe  😉
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It is the iconic photo of Che Guevara. But few people know who made it. Well, the photographers official name is Alberto Diaz Guitiérrez – later he named himself Korda, because it sounded like Kodak – born in Havana in 1928. His international breakthrough was because of this coincidental picture of Guevara.

After traveling to Cuba in the spring, I was so happy to stroll through Cuba’s history again. Last week I had the chance to visit the exhibition on Korda in Ghent, Beauty and Revolution. In the beautiful historical site of the Sint-Pietersabbey you can admire a thorough overview of Korda’s life and a diversified collection of photos.

Alberto struggled through a lot of jobs before he got intrigued by photography. He then started focussing on advertising and fashion photography and soon became a premiere fashion photographer in Cuba. ‘My main aim was to meet women,’ he later confessed.
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Like many other fellow citizens his life dramatically changed because of the revolution in 1959. He was touched by such poverty under Batista’s regime that he favored the revolutionary cause. The picture below was taken of a little girl with a stick in her arms to play with.
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“It was while on an assignment for Revolución in 1960 that Korda took the famous photo of Che, at a protest rally after a Belgian freighter carrying arms to Cuba was blown up by counter-revolutionaries while being unloaded in Havana harbour, killing more than 100 dock workers.

As he later recalled, it was a damp, cold day. Using a 90mm lens, he was panning his Leica across the figures on the dais when Che’s face jumped into the viewfinder. The look in Che’s eyes startled Korda so much that he instinctively lurched backwards, and immediately pressed the button: “There appears to be a mystery in those eyes, but in reality it is just blind rage at the deaths of the day before, and the grief for their families.” The Guardian

Korda followed Fidel Castro and his rebellions for ten years, being the personal photographer and friend of Castro. In later years he still excels in underwater photography, a more scientific approach. He is one of the most versatile photographers of his era, zooming in on esthetical as well as ethical subjects. Here you see a combination in one picture: a rebel with beautiful women.
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When asked for technical advice on photography, Korda answered with this quote of Le Petit Prince, to a bunch of photography students:

You can only see through the heart, what is essential is invisible to the naked eye.

Beauty and revolution: what an exceptional but wonderful combination.

The exhibition lasts till August 19th.

Two more tips in Ghent, for lunch: Emmy’s! For shopping: Piet moodshop


Enjoy your day in Ghent.

Ciao, Sophia

 

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Anton Corbijn in Antwerp

Hi there,

No need to tell you I am interested in photography.

There is an exhibition on Anton Corbijn, Dutch photographer, in Antwerp now.
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Although it is staying till September 30th, I certainly didn’t want to miss it and hopped on the train to Antwerp, took bus 17 at the Central Station, and hopped off at the “Eilandje,” an upcoming neighborhood in Antwerp.


The exhibition took place in the “Loodswezen” an old neo-renaissance palace at the banks of the river Scheldt. It was used as a departure point for Antwerp’s harbor pilots, who guided ships smoothly and safely in and out of the port. This protected monument, which dates from 1890, is open to the public for the first time. I really felt as if I were in Havana again, walking through this old and a bit neglected but magnificent building.

I started on the first floor with a collection of photojournalists. I always find it amazing how these photographers risk their lives to show us the disasters taking place thousands of miles from our homes.

On floor two you can visit Iconobelge, not a retrospective of Belgian photography but a result of a personal search by 34 carefully selected top photographers in their own archives. Some are already world famous, others bound to become world-famous. To name a few: Dirk Baeckman, Carl De Keyzer, Harry Gruyaert, Sanne De Wilde.

Shame on me. I simply missed the third floor! Apparently there was a small staircase in a dark corner on the second floor… Oh dear. There you could admire Michael Wolf’s work, with his focus on megacities.

I ended with the most important, the main floor, which seemed more like a basement. Here, over four hundred iconic photos of Anton Corbijn can be viewed. Corbijn, born in the Netherlands in 1955, moved to London in 1979, following the footsteps of the musicians and bands he admired and wanted to photograph. It looks like he has had them all in front of his lens: R.E.M, the Stones, Iggy Pop, Nick Cave, Depeche Mode, Debbie Harry, Kim Wilde and many, many others.

Go and see for yourself!

I enjoyed Antwerp, as I always do, the rest of the day. I had a delicious cappuccino with vegan cheese cake at Plant B, did some shopping – sales in the City of Fashion! – and ended with a delicious dinner with Hubbie, my godchild Louise and her boyfriend at Resto Jaro/Bar Stout.

Ciao, Sophia

 

 

 

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On the way to work

English version below

Op weg naar werk

Goeiemorgen allemaal,

De afgelopen weken heb ik mee gedaan aan een project Werkbabbels, een concept van Groep Intro, in samenwerking met het Huis van de Wereld  in Lommel. Het doel is om anderstaligen te helpen met het zoeken naar een job en hen voor te bereiden op een sollicitatiegesprek. In maart kregen vriendin Leen en ik, samen met andere vrijwillige begeleiders,  een dag opleiding in Brussel.

Eind april startten de sessies. De zeven deelnemers kwamen uit Irak, Syrië, Afghanistan, Guinée en Mexico. Vrouwen en mannen. Een gevarieerd gezelschap met twee gemeenschappelijke doelen: zo snel mogelijk Nederlands leren en een job vinden.

De eerste sessie begonnen we met een oefening: per twee elkaar interviewen om zo je eigen talenten en werkpunten beter te leren verwoorden. Op de vraag ‘Wat vind je niet aangenaam?’ antwoordde Tariq, uit Syrië: ‘Dat ik geen vriend heb.’ Tariq is hier met zijn vrouw en hun pasgeboren zoontje. Verder kent hij niemand.

De meesten volgden en volgen nog steeds Nederlandse les en kunnen al aardig hun plan trekken. Een job vinden als je niet vlot genoeg Nederlands spreekt is moeilijk. De studenten gaven ook aan dat enkel lessen volgen niet voldoende is om beter te leren spreken. De mensen op straat hebben weinig tijd voor een gesprek of spreken te snel.

Die avond thuis vertelde ik over mijn leservaring. Oudste stelde voor om met de mannen van zijn leeftijd uit de groep iets te gaan drinken. Zo kunnen ze Nederlands praten en onder de mensen komen. Over twee weken komen ze samen.

Het was mooi om naar ieders ambitie te luisteren: Anna uit Mexico heeft steeds in de petrochemie gewerkt maar wil nu graag in de groene energiesector een job vinden. Ik heb een sollicitatiegesprek bij ZF Wind Power – mijn vroegere werkgever 😉 – kunnen organiseren! Akeem uit Irak wil hier ook terug in de verkoop werken, maar beseft dat hij best eerst een diploma behaalt. Hij gaat proberen zijn studies te combineren met een job in een fabriek. Mariama uit Guinée wil liefst met kleine kinderen werken. Hiervoor moet je perfect Nederlands spreken. Ze gaat nu op zoek in de thuishulpsector. Tariq wil als zelfstandige werken, in Syrië had hij ook een eigen zaak.

Elk verhaal is uniek. Ik heb enorme bewondering voor ieders moed, wilskracht en doorzettingsvermogen. Ze hebben allen een lange en zware weg afgelegd en hier moeten ze opnieuw een leven opbouwen, vaak zonder familie of vrienden.

Ik kan niet uitweiden over ieders geschiedenis. Maar ik ga jullie wel een beetje vertellen over Ahmed. Ahmed is een optimistische en ambitieuze man van rond de dertig.  Samen met zijn vrouw en kind (vijf maanden geleden kregen ze een tweede kindje) vluchtte hij twee jaar geleden uit Irak. Zijn eerste maanden in België bracht hij door in een opvangcentrum in Wallonië, hij moest dus eerst Frans leren. Sinds iets meer dan een jaar woont hij in Lommel en volgt hij intensief Nederlandse les. In Irak werkte hij in een apotheek, en hier zou hij graag hetzelfde doen. Hij is ingeschreven om in september te starten met de opleiding apothekersassistent. Enkele dagen geleden had hij een gesprek met de apotheker hier in de buurt om te oefenen om te solliciteren. Voor hij de opleiding start, zou hij nog iets vloeiender Nederlands willen spreken. Ahmed stelde zelf voor om vrijwillig werk te gaan doen, zodat hij veel met anderen kan praten. Volgende week heeft hij een gesprekje met iemand van het woonzorgcentrum, om daar te helpen. Oudere mensen hebben meer tijd om te praten, vindt hij.

Toen Ahmed enkele dagen geleden hier was om zijn gesprek bij de apotheek voor te bereiden, vroeg ik hem of hij nog veel familie heeft in Irak. Zijn moeder, zijn 27-jarige zus en een neefje van één jaar oud zijn allen overleden aan kanker, tengevolge van het gebruik van uranium tijdens de oorlog.

Vorige week was de laatste sessie. Het is verrijkend om andere mensen te ontmoeten en met hen een klein stukje mee te lopen op hun levenspad.

Dus, wanneer een anderstalige je pad kruist, neem even de tijd voor een praatje.

Een heel mooi weekend allen!

On the way to work

Hi everyone,

How are you?

During the last few weeks, I was lucky to contribute to a special project: helping non-native people, who live in our hometown, to apply for a job.

They had to have a certain level of Dutch to participate. The first session we had seven students, from all over our globe: Afghanistan, Guinea, Mexico, Iraq and Syria–all of them motivated and very eager to learn. But they also brought with them a heavy backpack loaded with their own stories.

These people desperately want to have a job, to be able to speak to other local people, to be part of our community and to be able to give instead of always having to receive (from social care). Yet it is almost impossible to find a job if you do not speak the local language well.  It is a vicious circle.

Most of them would love to speak Dutch beyond the official courses, both to improve and because they are lonely. But people here do not have the time or they talk too fast, the students told me. I talked about this at home and Oldest volunteered to take the men his age within the group out for a drink, so they can talk and get to know our town. They will meet in one of the following weeks.

It is too much to describe everyone’s path. But I will tell a little bit about Ahmed. Ahmed is thirty and came here with his wife and child (they just had their second child). His first months he spent in a refugee camp in the South of Belgium, so he had to learn French, but for the past year, he has lived in our hometown and is following Dutch lessons. He worked in pharmacies in Iraq, and wants to do this here too.  Next September he is registered to start a course to become a pharmacist’s assistant. A few days ago he had a conversation with the pharmacist just around my corner to have a feel how everything works around here, and he was advised to learn to speak more fluently before he started his training.  Now we are arranging for him to get a volunteer job in our local nursing home. Old people have more time to talk, Ahmed thought.

When he was here a couple of days ago to practice for his conversation with the pharmacist, I asked him if he still had family in Iraq. The answer was no.  His mother, his 27-year old sister and a one year old nephew all died from cancer, caused by the uranium used in the war.

I have learned a lot through this project. Getting to know new people is always an enrichment. And what I knew already – from doing other volunteer work –  giving feels so much better than taking.

Take care,

Sophia

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My heart is in Havana

You probably know the song. If not, here it comes – by Camila Capello.  But be aware, it may stick in your ears all day long…

Have you ever visited Havana or Cuba? Well, we came back yesterday, and my heart is still there. Such an amazing city and such an impressive country. The colors, the people, the culture, the nature and the crazy feeling you have been catapulted back in time.

We had such a beautiful vacation, I will be writing on this the next weeks. Our holiday was organized by Connections in our hometown Lommel. And I can recommend them!

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